There are 201 days till 2009. Even if you don't have a lot of self-respect, you've got to at least act like you do. It's not necessary to be perfect to win the thing or the one you want. You simply have to have a fundamental understanding of the motivating psychological factors of human being and then apply them the best you can. Just trying to apply them will yield a most favorable outcome as your relationships progressively get better and better.:> @};-