Almost five years ago while visiting my sister’s family; I noticed my niece busily engaged at some project at the table in the other room. Wandering in to see what she might be coloring or drawing, I discovered instead that she was composing a list of “reasons why” she liked a particular boy in the neighborhood. While there were many of the usual superficial reasons people think of when we talk about love (for example "he’s cute"), one of her reasons struck me as profound and worth remembering. In the middle of her list, she wrote, "He enjoys me!!"
I have since come to know that enjoying someone is the greatest way we fall in love with someone.