1) if you find it hard to say no to an invitation or a request tho' not feeling up to it, you are not being assertive. nobody has to say yes just to make others pleased. whoever was turned down by you had no reason to feel upset if he's upset, that's his problem. but if you go along reluctantly, you'd feel lousy and that makes it your problem don't feel guilty when you say no. be assertive 2) "hustle" is a disco dance that's hot and popular in the mid 70s. people would do "hustle" steps in a group, one next to each other, all facing the same direction, moving sideways, forward and backward, making 180 degree turns and repeating the steps. the more in the group, the more fun 3) my nephew told me once he learned "texas two-step", he didn't want to do any other dance anymore "forget about waltz, cha cha, tango...texas two step is more fun than any of those dances," he said