Meet one of my students on Messenger; he asks me how to keep the one he loved. What a tough question! I can’t answer him immediately. I am caught in the question all day long. Finally, I write to him remember that the one you want is just like you, a girl with strong emotional needs. Sometimes it is easy to feel intimidated, but by just understanding and believing this one principle you can retain some confidence that she retains vulnerabilities, too. Understand that, if you simply plod along, ministering consistently to her needs for attention understanding, acceptance, appreciation, and affection, that she will become emotionally attached to you over time. Am I a Love Master? Not!!!! Not!!! I am confused sometimes.